Whole

I looked at Vuk as he played in the kitchen sink. And I Saw him. All is wonderful Vuk-ness concentrated in his face. He was absorbed totally in his actions. His body, mind, and spirit are all together, in the same place and time. A gift, to see my boy like this. Perhaps this is the gift children give their parents--to see a person whole and complete. For of such is the Kingdom of Heaven.

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